Before I sit down and plot out my 2012 goals, I figured it’d be helpful to go over my 2011 year; the good, the bad, and the ugly.

As I write this, I am sitting on a VIA train, speeding off to Montreal. Our original plans were to drive, but after reading reports of freezing rain, we made the decision last night to take the train instead. I will never again attempt to drive through a storm like the one on Christmas. So I am happily writing and taking advantage of the free wi-fi, and Frenchie’s reading a book beside me.

2011 was, for me, a year of upheaval. It has also been a year that has taught me to be grateful, to savour every moment, and to be forgiving to myself and others.

Cute sentiment, but I definitely need some changes.

Professional

At the beginning of 2011, I finally summoned up some courage and asked my bosses for a raise, a very necessary one. Although I did get the raise, the process I had to go through to get it was horrible.

In March, I was headhunted through a resume I had stuck up on Monster in January, and interviewed for an assistant position at a start up brokerage in Liberty Village, a very trendy neighbourhood. I was promised $45,000 salary. My new boss would train me and get me ready to do sales on my own. Everything would be great and lovely and…hang on.

Explosion!

Boss turned out to be a crazy lady. Miserable, and now on the couch of my friends’ home, I quit my job without anything lined up.

Fortunately, that same week I interviewed for my current position and was hired on the spot. I was extremely lucky, and only had 8 days between the two jobs.  I’ve been there ever since, on a salary combining a bonus and base, totaling $42,000 (though with my Christmas bonus, this was rounded out to $45,000). I’ve been here ever since and have enjoyed it. I am very grateful that I am even working, as many of my friends have been laid off, and many people in my generation are experiencing unemployment.

I also began working as a freelance writer in June, taking on projects through a friend of my aunt and uncle’s. About once or twice a month, I get a project to write a resume and cover letter based on questionnaires and previous resumes. I enjoy the work immensely, and it has allowed me to hone my writing skills.  I’m sincerely hoping to build more sidework like this in 2012, through tutoring and writing. I currently get paid $25/hr.

Locational

I had been living in a cute, basement bachelor apartment in February 2010.  I loved that little place.  I had a garden just outside my door, and everything I needed in the immediate area.

So when my new Liberty Village boss suggested buying a tiny 381sqft condo, and showed me how it’d be almost as inexpensive as renting, I decided to go for it.

The condo wound up being a bust. My new boss’s clients wound up buying the condo, and offered to rent it to me.  But after they increased the rent 5 days before I was set to move in, and 5 days before I had to move out of my apartment, I had to bail on the deal.

I now have a large, one bedroom apartment on the tenth floor of a high rise. It’s fairly cookie cutter, but it’s very spacious (maybe 800sqft?), has an indoor pool, and I finally feel like I have space to breathe. In the spring, summer and fall, I have access to the incredibly scenic trail that runs straight past my house into the downtown core, only taking 45 minutes or so. I love that bike ride.

Which leads me to…

Physical

Holy moley!  I’m an athlete!

In May, I participated in the Goodlife annual race through downtown Toronto.  I trained for the 5k race. I won’t bore you by reiterating the details, but the thrill of racing and doing it in 27 minutes gave me the biggest natural high that I’ve ever felt.

So I signed up for the Give it a Tri Triathlon. I did it in under an hour, although it was incredibly difficult and I was more tired than I’ve ever felt. But I was hooked.

Since my athletic eyes have always been bigger than my stomach, I decided the next logical step would be signing up for a Half Ironman. I’m not having a quarter-life crisis at all. No, siree.

Since then, I have been running weekly in a Half Marathon clinic, and I acquired the world’s best running buddy.  I can now easily run 15k. I am signed up to do the 30k Around the Bay race in Hamilton at the end of March. My body has changed, and I’m considerably less squishy.

I’m planning on having a giant eagle tattooed in henna across my back for the Half Ironman. I want to look like the warrior goddess that I feel like inside.

If you’re interested in following my physical transformation, and the occasional vlog, you can do so at Rabbit on the Run.

L’amour

I am dating an awesome guy who I want to introduce to my Nana. Enough said.

Financial

This section is pretty short, because my next post will be discussing in further detail how well I fared with my financial goals, and where I’m planning on going from here.

At the beginning of 2011, I had close to $11,000 left of my car loan. I paid that sucker off in full in September.

I increased my salary from $30,000 to $45,000.

I bought a Cervélo bicycle, and enrolled in a ton of athletic events, each ranging from $50 to $220.

The cost of paying off my car has been a complete depletion of my emergency fund. As of January 1st, it’ll be sitting at $1645.  I will continue to contribute $150 biweekly, in lieu of car payments.

In November, I made the mistake of brushing up against a car’s bumper in an overcrowded parking lot. Unfortunately, I had to claim it as an “at fault” accident and get insurance involved. The other driver was reasonable at first, then increased her demands. Which means if I do keep my car, I will be looking at a huge premium increase when my policy renews at the end of July.

Which is why I started really analyzing why I need a car. Especially after my incident on Christmas, I don’t want to own a vehicle anymore, not in a city like Toronto where it is almost criminally expensive to be a driver. Taking the TTC to work today reaffirmed to me that owning a car is not all it’s cracked up to be. It only took me an additional 15 minutes to make it to the office.

Zee Blog

This year, my blog was featured in the National Post, and two articles about me (the real me, with my full name and everything) appeared in the Globe and Mail. Though no major newspapers have come knocking at my door recently, I have done some giveaways and promotions, which has meant that I broke even on the costs of operating this blog.

I’m proud of Money Rabbit. But I’m not perfect (shocker). I write about everything in my life, including the stuff I’m not proud of. I’ve talked about my achievements, but I’ve also confessed my mistakes, faults, and wrongdoings. This can sometimes be quite scary, since I know I’ll face harsh judgment from people who don’t even know me personally, and sometimes even from the people who do know me personally. Though it is easy to criticize my choices and errors, at the end of the day, the main goal I’m trying to accomplish is personal development. As I stumble towards improving my character, it is thrilling and terrifying to share every step.

What I learned

  • I am a warrior goddess, and a triathlete.
  • I’m not the big city girl that I thought.  I am already looking forward to moving to a smaller town.
  • Debt must be destroyed. Use whatever resources you can to eliminate it. Paying off my car in full should have been done at my earliest possible opportunity. But it’s done now, and that’s what matters.
  • My family is immensely important to me. My mom is my closest confidante. My family are there to offer support and encouragement when needed, and I am happy to provide it in return.
  • Life’s too short to put up with partners who don’t treat you right.
  • Life’s too short to feel trapped in your career. If you’re unhappy, start planning IMMEDIATELY how to get where you want to go.
  • I need to change careers.
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I did it. The new blog is up and ready for action. The design kind of blows and I still have a ton of work to do in terms of getting it up to snuff, but Houston, we have lift-off.

So go check it out at www.RabbitontheRun.ca – it’s going to cover a much wider variety of topics than here at Money Rabbit, including but not limited to running, cycling, strength training, swimming, travel, nutrition, meditation, and Toronto based adventure.

And in case I’m not embarrassing myself enough by sharing my workouts with you, I figured I’d ramp up the humiliation by posting my first ever vlog!  That’s right, I have a face. And in case you didn’t read my post about going crazy, you’ll know that I wound up returning the camera that I made this video with.  So unless there is a collective desire for me to do more vlogs (I was thinking I’d take you on a few of my runs and hikes, show you some recipes, etc.) it’s going to be a one hit wonder.  Without the part about it being a hit. Or wondrous.

To celebrate the new blog, I’ll be hosting a giveaway this week on a yet for products from a mystery site (but it’s pretty awesome.)

This video is incredibly choppy and I wasn’t able to figure out how to make it fade in and out to ease the transitions, but hey, it’s a start, and is hopefully flashy enough to convince you to visit me at my new home. Without further ado (or self-deprecation), enjoy le vlog!

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Ladies and Gentlemen, I have a very important announcement to make, one that I’ve been longing to make for the past 14 months: I have paid off my car loan in full.

It all started last weekend. I was home on my parents’ farm, and my mother had decided to host a “just because” dinner, since so many of my relatives live in the area.  When my Aunt D and Uncle L arrived, Uncle L told me that he had been following my blog very closely and had a few financial suggestions for me.

I have to admit, I wasn’t really stoked at the thought of having a money conversation. Even though I blog about my finances on a regular basis, I felt slightly on edge at the thought of having a money discussion with an Uncle, which is something I’d never done before.

That conversation actually changed my entire financial game plan, and I’m so grateful for it.

After my family played a couple rounds of Apples to Apples, Uncle L asked to do the money chat, so we sat down and I listened.

In our conversation that followed, I learned that Uncle L is not yet 50, has no mortgage, and no debt of any kind. He lives in a large house on a nice street, with a pool and yard that backs onto a park. He accomplished this by working full time, in addition to a part time business that he owned and operated (he worked as a DJ and wedding videographer for a long time), and in addition to fixing ATMs when he was fresh out of university. He has paid off three houses in full.

How? Debt is the enemy and must be destroyed with every ounce of fire power that you’ve got. He and my Aunt made that their focus, and the result is that they live completely debt free.

He asked how much my interest rate was on my car loan, and I answered truthfully: 7.09%.  One of the pitfalls of buying used is that you can’t get a decent rate, unless there’s some massive promo going on. He told me straight up that was really, really high.  I agreed.

Something I’ve been counting on as “cash” but really isn’t were my stocks in my TFSA. The market right now is extremely volatile. The spectre of the European debt crisis is haunting the back of investors’ minds. Stocks are rising and falling at a rapid rate, based on what appears to me to be pure speculation.  Do I think that there’s going to be another recession?  Yes. Absolutely. I had that feeling even before my uncle had this chat with me. However, it took this discussion for me to really feel motivated to cash out with a marginal profit, and apply that towards my car loan and pay it off in full.

So I took my emergency fund, my piddly little emergency fund, my stocks, combined them, and paid off the remaining $8427.57.

How does this change things?  In theory, it shouldn’t change anything. I still want to apply biweekly payments to my emergency fund, savings, and retirement, the only difference should really be that I’m saving myself $50 monthly in interest.

In reality, it is going to offer me a higher degree of flexibility with my finances. For example, if I can’t make a payment into my savings for some reason or another, I don’t have to.  I won’t default on anything.  It won’t show up on my credit report, and I can make the payment up elsewhere.

But wait, said I, what about my emergency fund???  As of right now, there is $800 in it, and I also owe it $200 for helping me limp from this month to next without using my credit card. Well, says Uncle L, that’s what a line of credit is for.  It’s not ideal, but using a line of credit in dire circumstances is vastly superior to keeping a flush emergency fund while having debt at a rate of 7.09%. When I told him that I have up to $12,000 in credit card limits and my line of credit, he was pleased as punch. I’m doing well at my job and I have a good feeling of security here, and I’m planning on remaining here as long as it is mutually good. I’m loving my work as a part time editor and writer, and the extra money that that brings in is very helpful.

There were several other important points in our discussion but I’m going to save that for another post.  But I am now debt free.  I am going to wait a month before beginning my payments back to myself, so I can top up my chequing and feel a bit more comfortable. I also have some purchases I need to make – I need to get a video camera so I can start vlogging on my new blog, and I also want to finally get around to buying a couch.  These are baby steps, but paying off my debt was a giant leap forward.

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Last night I did my first trial at-home workout.  I loaded up my favourite heart-pumping hits (Memories by David Guetta, They by Jem, Pjanoo by Eric Prydz) and went to work.

Confession time:  I already miss the gym. 

I’ve always been an upper body/core kind of gal.  I don’t like working my legs and butt, simply because I hate feeling sore the next day; and since my legs are quite large (I’m nearly 6 feet tall), that’s an awful lot of soreness to be feeling.  When my arms are sore, I can still do basic things like write or cook.  When my legs are sore, I can barely sit down to pee. 

But with it being cycling season and all, that’s changed. My legs have finally gotten the attention that they’ve deserved after being neglected for so long, and I’ve whipped them into shape through running and cycling.

Why does that make me miss the gym?  Well, now that my body is fairly even in terms of overall strength, I miss the weights that I used to use for my arms and shoulders.  In my former life as a gym rat, you could find me amidst the muscleheads who hog the freeweights.  I’d lay out my towel, turn on my Britney, grab the set of 15lbs, and do my best to ignore the lingering scent of testosterone. 

Did you buy your tickets to the gun show?

In terms of exercise, it’s pretty easy to do lower body exercises when not at the gym.  I can squat in my living room just as well as I can squat at the gym.  Same with core; I’ve been doing the plank once a day, often at work so I don’t forget.  I’ll do the front plant for 60 seconds, and the side plank for as long as I can (usually 30-40 seconds, I hate the strain on my wrist).  I also do air bicycles and a series of other core exercises, and I’m pleased to say that you can now see some definition.

Unfortunately, my upper body is out to lunch, and the best thing I can do are tricep dips on a chair, and push ups.  At this point, I can do about 15 dude-style push ups, or 20-25 lady push ups.  To mix it up, I’ve started to do the walking version of this: I start in a full plank, do a push up, put my left hand next to my right, and move my right over a couple feet, then lower into another push up.  I walk back, pushup.  Walk to the left, pushup.  It engaged both my shoulders, arms, and core.  They’re so challenging that I can really only do three on each side, if I’m lucky.

What many sites have recommended is installing a pull-up bar above a door frame.  I reject this for two reasons; one, it costs money.  Two, it doesn’t go with my decor.  That’s right, I said it.  My apartment is so girly that a massive door pull-up would just look atrocious.  I may change my mind eventually, especially since I want to train for a Sprint triathlon, then a Half Ironman, but for now, it SO does not match the coasters. 

So right now, I have but one solution; hit the playground.  Doing body weight exercises ain’t gonna cut it, so it’s time to go back to school. I’ll be hitting the monkey bars with the vengeance of a 23 year old longing to redeem herself from a past filled with monkey bar misadventures.  This time, I’ll walk away the victor.

Only problem: my neighbourhood is filled with families, and children actually use the playgrounds.  I don’t want to show up, game face on, and start grunting like a warthog as I try to do chin-ups, while horrified children and parents look on.  Neither do I fancy a midnight trip to the playground, especially with the recent shooting in my neighbourhood (what can I say, it keeps my rent down, and if you haven’t been shot at in Toronto, you must be a tourist!  Just kidding, mom…) 

So I think I may do a run-by scouting of the local playground; if it’s covered with children actually using the equipment (heaven forbid!) I’ll come back another time.  If it’s free, I’ll do a quick set of pull ups and chin ups and walk away like nothing happened. 

Does anyone have any ideas for other exercises to do to target my biceps?  My goal is Linda Hamilton in Terminator 2.

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I’m going on a hiatus.

Not from blogging, or work … rather, I’m going on a social hiatus. I’m going to try and avoid coffee dates, dinner dates, etc dates with friends for the next month. Essentially, I’m taking a break from parties, events, and friendly gatherings for a month. I’m going to allow myself writing circles and yoga classes, I’m not turning into a complete hermit, but I’m going to spend time away from my friends in order to become a better friend.

I have a feeling that something is very out of whack with my social circle. Not to be melodramatic, but it’s a sense that I don’t necessarily belong with certain groups of people, or that perhaps certain friendships have been prolonged beyond their natural lifespan. In part, I think it’s been aided by social media; I’m able to keep in contact with such a wide group of people, that I’m trying to maintain a bunch of acquaintances instead of cultivating deeper friendships with kindred spirits.

It’s been, I think, a minor addiction.  I feel more popular and socially loved when I fill up my spare hours with coffee dates, dinners and movies.  Clearly I must be something special, if all my evenings are booked with visits and events?

But something’s been missing. I don’t know what it is yet, but I think I need to take a break from the social calendar and listen to what I, (insert my real name here), really need.  How do I spend my time when I’m not filling up my evenings with people? What books do I read? What food gives me the nourishment I crave? What movies do I watch? What projects do I take on? Will I have more time to dedicate to art?  To music? Should I meditate? Can I exercise and get myself to a level of fitness that I’m finally proud of?  What time do I like to wake up in the morning, what time do I like to go to sleep at? Where do I finally want to live and settle?

All these are questions that I need to answer, and I think I should figure it out while I’m still young and don’t have commitments to a family or spouse. I have intentionally left Wednesday onwards blank in my calendar. The Frenchman will be away in the land Down Under, and I’m going to listen to my body and my being and figure out what it wants.

I think that when all of this is said and done, I’ll have a clearer understanding of what kind of friends I want to have in my life. I think the people who really care will understand what I’m doing and why, and I’m looking forward to renewing and revitalizing the friendships that really matter.

  

I’m hoping to walk away from this feeling confident, self-assured, and self-aware of my needs, goals and ambitions. I have things I have to get done - books to write, symphonies to compose, pictures to paint - and I need to give myself the time and space to accomplish these things. It’s purely selfish, but it’s been too long, and I almost wish that I had done it sooner.

Tomorrow, Thursday and Friday, I am planning on waking up extra early to go to the gym before work. I want to make it a habit to use mornings to my advantage.

I also want to start meditating on a nightly basis.  Fear, doubt, jealousy and pettiness have set up shop in my heart; I want to drive them out and replace it with pure love, baby.

I’m still going to continue to write, and work away on this and on my goals. And to any friends who are reading this, I am excited to see if this will really revitalize and renew the bonds we have. Hopefully, this will allow me to be a far better and more loving friend than I’ve been, and I am super pumped for that.

It’s like Eat, Pray, Love – Toronto 2011 version. If I love it, and I’m finding it very productive, maybe I’ll keep going.  I’m just so excited to discover more about who I am and wha ti need to accomplish in this lifetime that I’ve been given. I’ve been so fortunate with the friends I have, and I think I’ll be more grateful for them.  After all, absense makes the heart grow fonder.

Namaste, yo.

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One of the pros (and cons) about running my own website is that I can post really crappy content.  I came up with this terribly cheesy freeform poem while biking to work this morning.  I am really working hard right now to figure out my life, speaking to past mentors, industry specialists, friends in different fields, etc.  I am really searching my soul about what is right for me, and the one great thing about this job is that it’s forcing me to really examine myself and who I am, and what I really want out of life.  I thought I wanted to be a millionaire more than anything in the world.  I was wrong.

I used to think

that happiness was doled out in BMWs and mansions

that my beauty would shine brighter when framed with diamonds and Dior

that serenity would come from luxury vacations

and that fame and recognition were the keys to self-worth.

I used to feel

a desire for riches that threatened to burn me alive

a daily desperation to achieve the gold of King Solomon’s mines

regardless of the cost.

I used to know

beyond a shadow of a doubt

that the only way to be happy was to be the best in my field

to outpace my competition

to be the most successful person amongst my family and friends.

But now I think

that happiness is found on a cheap bike, bought for a pittance

that my beauty shines brightest when sharing a smile

that serenity comes from listening to my heart

and that my self-worth lies in the strength of my character and the kindness of my actions.

Now I feel

that riches are too easily lost and gained

but memories are forever

so I must fill each day with joy, love and adventure

regardless of my bank statements.

Now I know

beyond the shadow of a doubt

that the only way to be successful is to be true to myself,

to my family and my friends

even if the cost is high

living my life with joy is the best bargain I can make.

Time is my greatest asset

I must cherish it with every fibre of my being.

When I die

please let it be said

I lived.

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The title pretty much says it all.  There is a lot of personal pride in this post – I not only completed my 2011 goal of doing a 5k, but I did very well on my time.  If you were at the race, I was the tall blonde wearing a huge smile the ENTIRE race.

It was a blustery, cold, rainy day in Toronto.  The kind of day with a damp chill that settles into your bones within minutes of stepping outside.  The pavement was slick with the drizzle that had been falling all night.

I woke up at 7:45am and powered up with a full breakfast (much against the advice of some readers and websites, but since I have low blood sugars I didn’t want to risk fainting).  Eggs, breakfast sausages, strawberries, bananas.  While I chowed down, I warily eyed the great outdoors.  Seriously?  I thought.  I have to race in THAT?!  Nevertheless, I pulled on my lulus, my Vibrams, and my Ontario Real Estate Association baseball cap (representin, word) and listed to Miley Cyrus to get me pumped up.

As I headed out of the condo and walked to catch a streetcar to Union Station, I remembered that Vibrams are not exactly waterproof, since within the first minute of being outside, my feet were soaked through.  Brrrrr.  However, I’d rather run the race in wet Vibrams than dry running shoes.  Nike can suck it.

Hundreds of runners poured off of the streetcar onto Queen’s Park.  We followed the loud music to get to the start of the race, lined with tents handing out promotional protein shakes, chocolate milk, bagels, and bananas.  I dropped my stuff off at a marked post which served as a “bag check” and made my way to the starting line.

I'm pretty sure I had an expression like this guy when I crossed the finish line

There were about 2100 runners who took part in the 5k, and I wound up close to the back.  I arrived about 20 minutes early, and had nothing to do but hop on the spot to try and keep warm.  The drizzle kept falling, everyone’s hair was damp around their faces, but there was a palpable spirit of “let’s do it!”  Within minutes of arriving, I began answering questions about my shoes.  Yes, they are very comfortable.  No, I’m not worried about lack of shock absorbtion, you really don’t need it.  Yes, I’ve noticed a huge difference in my speed.  As soon as one person noticed and started talking to me about my shoes, everyone within a 10m radius started gaping at my feet.  I kept a look out for other barefoot runners, but I’m 90% sure that I was the only one wearing Vibrams.  (*hint* Vibrams, I have done SO much promotional work for you at these races I think you should send me a free pair)

When the gun went off, I actually had to powerwalk the first 500m since everyone was so jam packed that I simply couldn’t move any faster.  As we hit College Street, with a big grin on my face, I took off.

Smiling relieved some of the tension I was holding in my body, and helped keep my speed consistent.  Running down University Avenue, which is usually crammed with cars, was surreal.  I had to keep remembering to pace myself, because all I wanted to do was charge.  The roads were speckled with family and friends wearing garbage bags and holding signs:  “You inspire us”  “Keep going!” “Toenails are for sissies!” (my personal favourite).

I didn’t have to slow down to walk until about 3.5kms in.  But even though I hit the wall, it was so easy to just push it back and think, I’m doing well, I can keep going, I think I may be able to do this in under half an hour!  The thought of crossing that finish line in under 30 minutes pushed me to step it up again.  With Judas by Lady Gaga roaring in my ears, I kept going.

Reaching the last 750ms was incredible.  The sides of the route were packed with people screaming, cheering, and banging cowbells.  With a speed I didn’t know I had in me, I sprinted, and I had no idea I could actually move that fast.  I’m six feet tall, so my stride is pretty long, and I absolutely booked it to the finish line.  As I got close, I saw the clock – 28 minutes.  28 minutes?! I did it under 3o minutes!!!

I had no friends or family waiting for me at the finish line, but in a way that made it even better.  There was only me, and the self-love I felt was just so powerful and very personal.  I picked up the bronze medal that they were handing all of the participants and immediately called up all my nearest and dearest to tell them how well I did.

What the whole experience has taught me is that you really and truly can accomplish anything that you set your mind to.  I’ve never been a natural runner, but with enough training, I was able to push past my own mental and physical barriers to achieve what I set out to do.  Not only that, but achieving something that is challenging and outside of your comfort zone pushes you to keep going and achieve something even more challenging.  I feel now that the 5k was a warm-up to get me prepared for the Spartan and the Give it a Tri Triathlon on Toronto Island.  I’m registering for both today as soon as I finish putting up this post :)

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Royal Bank of Canada, it’s over.  Today, you lost a multimillion dollar client.

And believe me …  it’s you, not me.

Today I initialized my TD Easyswitch and am moving everything in my RBC accounts over to TD.  I’ve been with TD Bank for four years and have used them for the majority of my banking, but until the government switched my GST payments to my TD account, I couldn’t close the RBC down.  Today was the big day.

This post may seem like I’m being paid by TD, which is NOT the case.  You can pretty much insert any bank in here that you’d like, but my experience with TD has been phenomenal.  CIBC has been known to treat their customers very well too.

My very first account was with RBC.  My mom used to take the six year old Money Rabbit to the RBC branch in Georgetown, ON with a little tupperware container full of money (see Lessons from my Mother), which we’d deposit into my Leo Young Savers account.  I loved bringing my little RBC bankbook with me, and having the bank’s massive printer zap the new balance into its crisp white pages.  I was shocked when the balance reached $100.  I was rich!

I remained a loyal RBC customer until my second year of university, when I booked an ill-fated appointment with a financial advisor.  Tired of my debt,  I had booked the appointment to speak to an RBC advisor about investing what little money I had at the time ($400 in my account, tops).

I arrived at the meeting early.  I had no idea what to expect so I dressed nicely.  I brought statements, and a small notebook with ideas that I had written down.  I was excited and nervous, I was finally going to make a positive change with my money!  I was going to be an investor, and I wasn’t even twenty yet!

I don't care if RBC hires Brad Pitt to be a financial advisor, I'm never going back!!!

Of course, if you’ve been reading my blog for awhile, you know what happened next.  My appointment turned out to be with a stereotypical banker (white male in his early fifties, balding, tweed suit, had a generic portrait of an eagle in his office), who pulled up my account, and informed me very gravely that there was absolutely nothing he could do with me until I had at least $1000 in my account.  I tried asking further questions … what about mutual funds, stocks, anything?!  He handed me some brochures and sent me on my way.

Standing outside of the bank, I felt defeated and stupid, but something pushed me to walk across the street and into the TD Bank.  I wanted a second opinion.  I had read enough on personal finance to feel that I had been sold short by RBC.  So I made an impromptu appointment, and was seen in twenty minutes.

What a difference.  Within half an hour of my appointment, I was investing $50 monthly into a medium risk mutual fund.  I worked out a plan with my new advisor, where I would take all of my kick back (I worked as a hostess every weekend), and invest it into a mutual fund.  I figured I could easily come up with the $50 a month in tips, since I usually pulled in about $75 monthly above my paycheque.  It’s because of the time that TD Bank took to get me started that I’m where I am today.

RBC’s mistake has cost them a million dollar customer, and I knew that, which is why I didn’t take no for an answerSure, my networth is only about $23,000 right now, but they should have had the foresight to recognize that a 19 year old with a burning passion for investing would be worth millions of dollars in the future.

Take my auto loan, for example.  When I was first looking into financing my car this past summer, I decided to give RBC one final shot.  I booked appointments with both TD and RBC, one right after the other.

At my TD appointment, I met Sammi, who has become my financial go-to gal for organizing my finances.  The appointment ended up being nearly an hour, because we got chatting about the rest of my finances.  The manager himself went to Tim Hortons and brought us back coffees.  We reorganized everything, switched some money around, changed my account types, and preapproved me for a loan.  I walked away feeling bouyant and excited.

My RBC appointment was next.  The branch was nearly empty, and I had to wait six or seven minutes for someone to notice that I was standing and waiting for my appointment.  I was shown into a small office where my advisor was waiting.  My first major obstacle at this appointment is that my advisor could barely speak English.  I don’t have a problem with anyone who speaks English as a second language (my grandfather is an immigrant from Holland), but when it comes to money, I have to be able to communicate clearly to ensure that my needs are understood.

I asked about loans, and she had no idea what to tell me, or why I was asking.  I decided to let it drop and moved on.  When I continued and asked questions about my credit card and that I was thinking of switching cards, she handed me brochures and told me to call Visa myself.

RBC, wtf is with you and brochures?!  I don’t want a brochure, I want guidance!!!

Essentially, I stormed out.  My time is too precious to squander with a company that has a business model that involves passing out brochures like hot cakes, instead of assisting their customers in person.

Not only that, but I called RBC right after and very calmly informed them that their business practices were hugely flawed and that it had cost them a long term customer.  The woman on the phone was very nice.  We had a great chat about my experiences with the company, I told her that I hoped the “higher ups” were listening, and we hung up.  The next week I received a card in the mail with a $25 gift certificate to Chapters.  That, in my opinion, has been the one saving grace in my entire fiasco with RBC.

Let me tell you why I’m a million dollar client, and why you are too.

Over the course of our lifetimes, odds are very high that over one million dollars will be funneled through our accounts.  When I bought my car, I financed it through TD with $14,998 over 5 years at 7.09%.  Were I to take the full five years to pay this off, TD would net about $3000 in interest from me.

My RRSPs, stocks, mutual funds, TFSAs, line of credit, and Visa are all with TD Bank.

When I get a mortgage, I will seriously consider going through TD (although I do know an outstanding mortgage broker).

Essentially, as long as TD doesn’t f*&k up, I will be their customer until the day I die, and over the course of my lifetime I will be a multimillion dollar client.

Here’s another reason that banks should treat their clients better.

My glowing reviews of TD Bank convinced my parents to consider the switch from RBC to TD.  They moved EVERYTHING, and I believe that they even recently refinanced their mortgage using, you guessed it, TD Bank.  Not only did RBC’s arrogance cost them one multimillion dollar client, it cost them two additional million dollar clients and a mortgage.

You, as a client, are a long term investment.  A bank should put exhaustive efforts into making you happy, because YOU are what they need to survive.  And frankly, I feel better being with a bank that understands how to treat their own investments, and in turn feel more confident investing my money wtih them.

Do not sell yourself short.  If your bank is not treating you with the respect you deserve, get out.  Get a second opinion, and never be afraid to walk out on a financial appointment, even if your advisor looks like Brad Pitt or Megan Fox.


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(Note, this is a long post.  I’m also outrageously tired, so I’m sorry if it’s loaded with spelling and grammar mistakes)

It all started with 381 square feet.

It’s time for a big reveal.  Not my identity, of course, but the industry I work in.  So far I’ve had some interesting guesses, but nothing close.  So here it is; I’m a licensed realtor working in the Greater Toronto Area.  However, I will always write this blog in anonymity.  This isn’t publicity for my business, it’s my solace and my refuge away from a business where you are a product and service that you’re selling.  However, it’s important to disclose this fact that I am a real estate agent, as this is important to bear in mind both for this story and in all my upcoming posts, since I’ll be referring to my adventures in my new job and the money related stories that come with it.

I digress.

I showed up for work on Monday evening at my new job, since I’ve been heading straight from my former/current job to my new one in the evenings.  My new boss told me prior to my arrival that she knew of some great condos that I could rent nearby, in a beautiful new complex, right in my budget range.  When I arrived, however, she showed me how she had been crunching some numbers, and how for only an additional $200 per month, I could just buy the unit instead, with a monthly cost of under $1400.

This got the cogs in my head whirring.  I don’t have a downpayment ready per se, but I do have my RRSP and my stocks which I have always intended to go towards purchasing a property.  I decided to check it out and do a showing with her.

The unit was tiny.  I wouldn’t even have been able to fit a desk in there.  However, I know for a fact that my new job is going to keep me at the office for huge stretches of time, so I wouldn’t need a ton of space or a desk, since I would mostly just work at the office.  I also fell in love with the open concept, granite countertops, dishwasher, washer and dryer.  It also had a huge balcony overlooking a courtyard, where I imagined sipping my morning tea at a cute bistro set as I checked my email.  The condo complex also has a gym and pool, so I wouldn’t have to pay for a gym membership anymore; and instead of paying my money rent to a landlord, I would own.

My head was spinning.  I pictured buying a small 1 bedroom in a year or two, or even holding off and investing in an income house or triplex.  But now, here I was, faced with an opportunity to get started in the housing market.  I was excited, scared, and outrageously intimidated.

But here’s something to consider when looking at investing in condos.  A lot of people get the wrong idea and think that the profit margin lies between the buying and selling prices.  Instead, the real profit lies in how large of a return you get in your initial investment, namely your down payment.  For example, if you put down $20,000 on a condo that you buy for $200,000, and sell the unit for $250,000 before the building is even registered (and you only have to start paying a mortgage once the building is registered), you haven’t made a $50,000 profit on $200,000 (only 25%).  You’ve made a $30,000 profit on $20,000 (150% on your initial investment).  Your rate of return is based on what you put in, not the final buying and selling numbers. Read the rest of this entry »

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I can’t lie – the entire reason I began working out in the first place was because I wanted to be Lara Croft.  Not like Lara Croft, but actually BE her.  I wanted to run through the jungle, retrieve ancient artefacts while dodging gunfire, and live in a gigantic mansion.  However, I knew if I ever wanted to be a vigilante, I’d have to kick it up a notch and turn my body into a lean, mean, fighting machine.   So whenever I exercised, I’d try to push myself harder, thinking “what would Lara Croft do?”

Quietly, I have always pretended to be a superhero/vigilante while I’m at the gym.  My iPod is loaded up with the soundtrack from Mission Impossible, the Matrix, and James Bond.  Lara Croft, however, was soon replaced by Buffy the Vampire Slayer, my all time favourite female ass-kicker.  In fact, my 2011 goal to be able to do a freestanding handstand is partially inspired by her; in Season 1 Episode 1, when Angel is following her, she cleverly swings up onto a bar and remains in a perfect handstand before swinging down and kicking him in the back.  Classic.

It wasn’t until last month that I discovered Nerd Fitness, a site dedicated to people doing exactly what I have always done, essentially using jedis, etc. as inspiration for working out.  However, all of my fitness idols are female, so here is my list of lady vigilantes that I try to emulate while at the gym or on a run.  This is a short list, of course, but these are my top three.

All Round Fitness and Awesome Idol:  Buffy

Either you get this or you don’t.  Buffy the Vampire Slayer is, in my humble opinion, the greatest superhero of all time. She’s smart, innovative, and focused.  She has the toughest job in the world but still manages to remain positive and morally sound.  She puts her friends and family before the mission, and is willing to do anything to keep them safe, including sacrificing herself and sending her lover to Hell.  Not only that, but she always finishes off her slaying with a carefully thought out quip or pun.

That aside, her fitness is out of this world.  Buffy is highly skilled in hand to hand combat and martial arts.  She is extremely flexible and powerful, like a coiled spring.  Her weapons roster includes:  stakes, holy water, crossbows, axes, swords, broadswords, and daggers.  She is an extremely fast runner, able to sprint over a long period of time, and also able to run for longer distances (such as when she had to run to rescue Dawn from Willow’s destructive fireball in Season 6).  However, a fair portion of her training with Giles is dedicated to her mental focus and honing her senses.  I would best classify Buffy’s fitness as being mostly Eastern in influence (strong martial arts with a meditative practice), combined with a brawling, street style in which she uses any and all tools at her disposal to defeat her enemy.

How to train as Buffy:

-Flexibility training: hip openers, hamstring stretches, yoga

-Martial Arts Training:  failing that, kickboxing classes are available at most gyms

-Long distance running with speed intervals:  perfect for chasing down your vampire quarry.

-Dancing:  you can get a high level of cardio while working it at your equivalent of the Bronze.

-Meditation:  hone your mind and your senses and deepen your awareness of the supernatural by incorporating a meditation into your practice.

Lara Croft:  Tomb Raider


Lara is an adventurer – she is anything but mundane, and on the average mission, you’ll find her skydiving, scubadiving, motorcycling, horseback riding, dog sledding, etc.  Not only that, but she is versed in several languages, is extremely well educated, and has contacts in the US army who seem to have no problem in granting her favours (if I were the army, I would leap at the chance to help Lara Croft).  Even though she mostly deals in the ancient world, she’s always equipped with the latest high tech gadgets and weaponry.

However, this lady is a tramp.  As elegant as her upbringing is, this gal will probably be found brawling in a bar in Malaysia.     She’s tough as nails and doesn’t take jacksquat from anyone.

How to train as Lara Croft:

-Do something adventurous:  rock climbing would be a great one, it works your entire body and will prepare you for climbing the Mayan ruins

-Swimming:  Lara Croft often lands in sticky situations which force her to swim either very deep or for a long period of time.  Start with lengths, work up to swimming outside if you can, lakes, oceans, rivers, etc.

-Muay Thai: work your core and get used to brawling, ’cause you’re gonna need it

-Archery:  Improve your hand-eye coordination

Sarah Connor:  Terminator 2

This one was so easy.  Ever since I saw Terminator 2, opening with Linda Hamilton doing chin ups on her hospital bed that she’s propped up in an insane asylum, I knew she was one tough chickie and my bicep idol.  Linda Hamilton’s arms have always been my goal.  They look like they’re carved out of solid rock or forged in a volcano of awesome.  Not only that, but she’s a protective mom too, which makes her a superhero above and beyond trying to prevent Judgment Day.

Sarah’s workout routine would probably mostly weight training, maybe some light cardio.  But Sarah’s also inventive, so as much as she’d be hitting the gym, she’d probably be figuring out other ways to bulk up.

How to train as Sarah Connor:

-Chin ups, and lots of ‘em:  Hit the monkey bars in your local playground and have at ‘er.  You may want to do it early in the day or late at night, to avoid the five year olds who get mad at you for monopolizing their equipment.

-Deadlifts, squats, lunges:  Lots of ‘em.

-Pushups:  Lots of ‘em

-Weight-lifting:  bicep curls, tricep dips, bench presses, flys, reverse flys, lateral lifts, shoulder presses, lateral pulls.

-Crunches:  Sarah is insanely sculpted, so a strong core is a must.  Planks, oblique curls, exercise ball crunches, scissors and other core exercises are an essential.

Any other female fitness idols out there that you feel should have made the list?

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