I read two really fantastic books this weekend, cover to cover.  The first was Gretchen Rubin’s “The Happiness Project,” which started out as a blog, and evolved into a novel.  I loved it, and think it’d be a great read for anyone who has tried to quantify what happiness means to them, and tries wacky things to make it a reality.  However, my inclination is that this book would be better suited to female readers.

The other book I read was Terry Fallis’s “The Best Laid Plans.”  I think I found it because it was featured on the Toronto Public Library’s home page as a new Canadian fiction item.  I think the reason I devoured it was because it revolves around a Canadian federal election, and gets you behind the scenes for what’s REALLY happening on Parliament Hill.  It was a great read, because even though it was “fiction,” it felt more like a thinly veiled exposé of the dark side of Canadian politics.  His language in particular is a challenge, since his prose is technically, well, perfect.

Yesterday, I had written a long non sequitur post about Easter and family and all that lovely stuff, but when I got home to Toronto this afternoon, I felt more like writing about dollars and cents.  So long story short, I had an amazing time at home with my family, who are all very proud about the National Post article.  I indulged in such basic activities as eating, sleeping, exercising, reading, and consequently I feel like a million bucks.  Not only that, but I’m ready to rumble.  I can hardly wait to sort out if I’ll be renting the condo this week so I can figure out if I’ll be decluttering like a fiend or not.  If I do get the condo, I’m going to be putting some design choices to the readers of my blog, for example, do I get a loft bed or a pull-out couch?

Moving on, my bank account right now is nicely fleshed out with my income tax return.  All together, I received close to $3800 back.  This is due to the fact that I can now write off some expenses, combined with my educational costs, my professional dues, my charitable giving, my RRSP contribution, and other deductibles like public transit passes and my rent.

Ideally, what I’d like to do with the money is apply the entirety of the amount towards my car loan and get it off of my shoulders.  Applying this amount would get it under $6000 (WOW – I’d really be able to pay it off by Christmas then).  The lovely Krystal Yee just paid off the entirety of her loan and feels great.  However, I instead added the tax return cash to my emergency fund, to help me pay my first and last month’s rent in the upcoming month, and also to assist me with any upcoming unexpected expenses.

I’m not out of the woods yet.  I’m feeling very (cautiously) optimistic about the upcoming months and my earning potential, but I also know that the unexpected can and will happen.  That’s why my reserves are so important to me right now; once I’ve achieved stability, I can start shifting things around again.

Once my car is paid off, I’d like to both save aggressively for my down payment and start investing in stocks.  I know this is a hot button issue for a lot of twenty and thirty-somethings.  Stocks are almost like this mystical presence in personal finance; elusive, tantalizing, and tricky.  To me, it seems like the Cave of Wonders, where inside lies treasure and freedom, but only a talented and educated investor can make it work, otherwise you’ll be swallowed up.  Aka, I want the CHALLENGE and RISK of trying something new with my finances.

I also need to rewrite my page I’ve entitled My Dream.  Ever since I realized that what I really want isn’t more stuff, but in fact less stuff to assist my transient lifestyle,  I’ve been feeling lighter, freer, happier, like my goals are more in line with who I am.  I don’t see myself living in a house for awhile now, since I want to maximize my time as a hip twenty-something and live in a condo in the downtown core.  I still will always love gardening, and the friendly/neighbourly feeling that living in a house provides, but I was rushing myself too quickly along the path of domesticity, and this bunny isn’t house trained yet.

I’m going to close with a photo of my family’s dog, Booker.  My mother is a teacher and a “Miss Frizzle-esque” one at that, and she designed this hat for school this past week.  This photo was accompanied by an email that read:

“Before disassembling my lovely millinery, I asked Booker to model my creation.  With some hesitation, he obliged.

If the lovely Kate Middleton, future Queen of England is interested, I will design a hat for her as well.”

Happy Easter!!!

FacebookGoogle ReaderEmailShare

Run, don’t walk, to buy or borrow this book.

I don’t know what made me choose this specific title, but I’m thanking the literary gods for matching me up with this book.  Not only do I feel inspired, but it’s changed my entire workout pattern and I’m now running “barefoot” compliments of my new Vibrams Five Fingers.  I feel incredibly liberated, excited and energized to be out running.  Most of that can be attributed to Born to Run.

Have you ever wondered why humans gather by the thousands to push themselves and their bodies through the pain and anguish of a marathon or Ironman?  Or why humans are built more similarly to running animals like horses and wolves, than we are to apes and walking creatures who have flat feet with no achilles tendons?  Or have you ever wondered how ancient warrior tribes could cross miles of mountainous terrain in nothing but sandals; while nowadays, equipped with hundreds of dollars of shoe technology and orthotics, we suffer from shin splints and snapped hamstrings?

Christopher McDougall’s answer to these questions is very simple:  humans were born to run long distances.  Just not with running shoes, which we have been brainwashed into thinking are a necessity.

The book is very well written and nicely paced (McDougall is an accredited journalist and editor).  The journey begins in the Copper Canyons, joining McDougall on his quest to find Caballo Blanco (the “White Horse”), the only outsider accepted and welcomed by the running tribe of the Tarahumara natives.  As the book delves deeper into the forgotten hills of the Canyons and unveils a secretive tribe of extreme marathoners, McDougall introduces his reader to the world of ultrarunning, blazing through a trail of high tech sports labs, the plains of Africa, and North American streets.  Most memorably, the reader gets to run side-by-side with the Tarahumara entrants through the Leadville 100, a treacherous 100 mile run through the Colorado Rockies, done in under 30 hours.  The race in its detail and description is thrilling; my pulse quickened, and I turned the pages as fast as I could, anxious to not lose a single second of the adrenaline that I could literally feel pumping through their bodies. Read the rest of this entry »

FacebookGoogle ReaderEmailShare

Today I had the amazing opportunity to sit down with published children’s author, Vikki VanSickle (and yes, this is her birth name).  Vikki’s inaugural book, Words that Start with B, was launched this fall with Scholastic Canada, and was so successful that she was featured on a top ten list with Amazon, along with Harry Potter and the Hunger Games trilogy.  She’s received positive reviews left, right and centre; and meeting her in person only assured me that this dynamic woman has a long and fruitful career ahead of her.  In person, she’s energetic and friendly, but even more remarkable is her sense of humility and gratitude.

As you can tell by my gushing, I have a total (professional) crush over Vikki’s journey.

I got in touch with Vikki because she graduated a few years ahead of me from my same program at university, and because she was friends with several of my friends.  I saw that she had written a young teen’s novel and I was frankly shocked to see someone just a few years older than me who had already “made it.”  I asked a mutual friend to put us in touch, and tonight I finally got to meet her.

What I was hoping to gain from our meeting was a realistic idea of what the publishing process is like.  Anyone can write a book; but it takes another set of skills altogether to get it published.  She was completely open with me about what I should expect…I was prepared for the rejection aspect, but what surprised me was the time period.  She hypothesized that if you were to have your book picked up in January 2011, it would probably take until January 2013 for the book to actually hit the shelves.  She also warned me about the danger of self-publishing (looks extremely unprofessional), and gave suggestions for how to query at agencies throughout North America. Read the rest of this entry »

FacebookGoogle ReaderEmailShare

Run, don’t walk, to buy this book.  I guarantee that you will not regret it.  I recently picked it up from my local library, and although I expected it to be good, I certainly wasn’t expecting to be reading a quintessential guide to writing.  I never buy books, as I always get them from the library, but I’m going to be breaking this rule after I have to return my copy.

Here’s my deal with Stephen King’s books:  I’ve only read two of them, The Green Mile and MiseryThe Green Mile was absolutely brilliant.   Misery was the same, but I have a really tough time dealing with the concept of amputation, so this book was not quite up my alley.

Aside from that, I have stayed clear of his writing because I know it’ll scare the crap out of me.  I don’t like scary movies.  I cry, huddle, and then lie awake late at night praying that a zombie doesn’t jump out from under my bed.  Similarly, I don’t like scary books.  A good, suspenseful writer such as Mr. King makes it his duty to freak you out.  Mission accomplished, sir, and so I avoid your fiction like the plague.

With this bias in mind, I absolutely loved On Writing.

I truly believe that everyone should have a mentor.  An older, experienced person to show them the ropes, coach, instruct, and pass on a legacy.  Well, this book makes you feel as if Stephen King has invited you into his home, poured you a cup of coffee, and then proceeds to tell you everything he has learned about writing after over 20 years in the business.  At the end of the book is a reading list, which makes me feel like he has assigned me homework.  I love that – I want to arise to the challenge he has presented to me, the challenge to be the best writer I can be.

I guarantee that it won’t be boring, and it should be mandatory reading for all bloggers.  Read the rest of this entry »

FacebookGoogle ReaderEmailShare

This is the first book I picked up from the library with the specific intention of writing a review on it, and boy oh boy, do I wish that I had chosen a different read.  I’m not one of those people who thinks that reviewing is synonymous with panning, but honestly, this book sucked. 

The book started out really great for me – let me read you an excerpt:

“Perfect people can be so annoying.  Like that zero-per-body-fat girl who always beats you to yoga on Sunday mornings, wearing her perfect little Lululemon outfit.  Once you exit Starbucks carrying her usual $4 soy latte in one hand, a green leather Prada wallet in the other.  You nearly cried (and by you, I mean me.)

“Perfect also works two cubicles away from you at the sausage mill, er work.  He’s the boyishly handsome recent hire who drives a new Audi and, rumor has it, plays golf with the boss.  Lunch is usually fresh sushi.  And his first-generation iPhone scores him “babes”

“Who are these alien people, I ask, people whose lives seem so together that it physically pains us to acknowledge them?”

(Page 1, You’re So Money, Farnoosh Torabi.)

I found myself identifying with this introduction; I work in Central Toronto, and I see these people on a daily basis.  The ones going to Starbucks and shopping at Holt Renfrew.  People my age.  I have always longed for that financial freedom to drop $6 on a custom Starbucks drink and then go pick up some Narciso Rodriguez perfume at Holt.

Intrigued, I read on.  Can Farnoosh Torabi teach me how to better allocate my finances to make this lifestyle affordable?

Simple Answer:  no, no she can’t.

Read the rest of this entry »

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...
FacebookGoogle ReaderEmailShare

Analytics Plugin created by Web Hosting